Take a Shower for Jumu'a

Narrated 'Abdullah bin Umar: Allah's Apostle (SallAllaahu `Alayhi WaSallam) said, "Anyone of you attending the Friday (prayers) should take a bath." (Bukhari, 835)

Narrated Abu Said Al-Khudri: Allah's Apostle (SallAllaahu `Alayhi Wa Sallam) said, "The taking of a bath on Friday is compulsory for every male (Muslim) who has attained the age of puberty." (Bukhari, 837)

25 September 2009 08:22 by Shayistha Abdulla | Comments (1) | Permalink

Day of Resurrection

'A'isha reported that she heard Allaah's Messenger (sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam) as saying: The people would be assembled on the Day of Resurrection barefooted, naked and uncircumcised. I said: Allaah's Messenger, will the male and the female be together on the Day and would they be looking at one another? Upon this Allaah's Messenger (sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam) said: 'A'isha, the matter would be too serious for them to look to one another. (Muslim, 6844)

Janazah Prayer

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By Sheikh Ahmad Kutty

According to ta famous and authentic hadith, the Prophet (upon whom be Allah's blessings and peace) considers attending funerals as one of the most fundamental duties of brotherhood. ( See Bukhari and Muslim). Since it brings countless blessings, every Muslim should hasten to participate in funerals as often as possible. The purpose of the Janazah prayer is to seek pardon and forgiveness on behalf of the deceased.

In Fiqh (Islamic Jurisprudence) Janazah prayer is classified as a fard kifayah. This means it is the collective duty of the Muslim community. If some people perform it, then all are free from blame, but if no one performs it, then all are held responsible.

However, the greater the number of people praying, the better it is for the mayyit (deceased).

There is a general misconception that women are not permitted to pray Janazah. This is totally baseless from an Islamic point of view. Islam does not insist that women come out for Janazah, as it might inconvenience them with respect to their duties toward their homes and children. Nevertheless, this is no way implies that women can be prevented from performing the funeral prayer. They make take part if they are in a state of purity. This can be inferred from the fact that the mothers of the faithful, such as Aishah, Umm Salmah etc used to pray Janazah.

In Janazah there is no ruku (bowing) nor sujud (prostration). The entire prayer is done in standing position, and it consists of four takbirs and salam. It is recommended that the prayer lines be odd in number, for example three or five.

It is also recommended that the closest male relative of the deceased lead the prayer. But if such a person is not available or does not wish to do so, then the Imam or any other knowledgeable person may lead the prayer with the family's permission.

The mayyit should be placed in front of the Imam. If it is a male, the Imam should stand near the head, if it is a female then he should stand towards the middle. If prayer is being conducted simultaneously on a male (s) and female (s), then the male should be placed closer to the Imam.

Before starting the prayer, as usual with every salah, the niyaah (intention) should be made. It is not necessary to pronounce the niyyah in words, since the niyyah comes from the heart. Niyyah means to have the sincere intention of praying for the mayyit. The Prophet (upon whom be Allah's blessings and peace) said, "When you pray for a mayyit, pray sincerely on his behalf."(Reported by Abu Dawud).

The following are the steps to be taken in a Janazah Prayer:

  1. The Imam should pronounce takbeer saying: Allahu Akbar

  2. Read Surah Fatihah

  3.  Pronounce a second takbeer

  4. Read the benedictions on the Prophet (al -Ssalatul Ibraheemiyyah or durood Shareef)

    "اللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ عَلَى مُحَمَّدٍ وَعَلَى آلِ مُحَمَّدٍ، كَمَا صَلَّيْتَ عَلَى

     إِبْرَاهِيمَ، إِنَّكَ حَمِيدٌ مَجِيدٌ، اللَّهُمَّ بَارِكَ عَلَى مُحَمَّدٍ

    وَعَلَى آلِ مُحَمَّدٍ كَمَا بَارَكْتَ عَلَى إِبْرَاهِيمَ وَعَلَى

     آلِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، إِنَّكَ حَمِيدٌ مَجِيدٌ".

  5.  

    Allaahumma salli 'alaa Muhammadin wa 'alaa 'aali Muhammadin, kamaa sallayta 'alaa 'Ibraaheema wa 'alaa 'aali 'Ibraaheema, 'innaka Hameedun Majeed. Allaahumma baarik 'alaa Muhammadin wa 'alaa 'aali Muhammadin, kamaa baarakta 'alaa 'Ibraaheema wa 'alaa 'aali 'Ibraaheema, 'innaka Hameedun Majeed.

    O Allah, bestow Your favor on Muhammad and on the family of Muhammad as You have bestowed Your favor on Ibrahim and on the family of Ibrahim, You are Praiseworthy, Most Glorious. O Allah, bless Muhammad and the family of Muhammad as You have blessed Ibrahim and the family of Ibrahim, You are Praiseworthy, Most Glorious


  6. Pronounce a third takbeer: one should pray for mercy and forgiveness on behalf of the mayyit. He may recite one or more of several du'as transmitted from the Prophet (upon whom be Allah's blessings and peace). Four of them are given below:

       

      Allaahum-maghfir lahu warhamhu, wa 'aafihi, wa'fu 'anhu, wa 'akrim nuzulahu, wa wassi' mudkhalahu, waghsilhu bilmaa'i waththalji walbaradi, wa naqqihi minal-khataayaa kamaa naqqaytath-thawbal-'abyadha minad-danasi, wa 'abdilhu daaran khayran min daarihi, wa 'ahlan khayran min 'ahlihi, wa zawjan khayran min zawjihi, wa 'adkhilhul-jannata, wa. 'a'ithhu min 'athaabil-qabri[wa 'athaabin-naar].

      O Allah, forgive him and have mercy on him and give him strength and pardon him. Be generous to him and cause his entrance to be wide and wash him with water and snow and hail. Cleanse him of his transgressions as white cloth is cleansed of stains. Give him an abode better than his home, and a family better than his family and a wife better than his wife. Take him into Paradise and protect him from the punishment of the grave [and from the punishment of Hell-fire]. (Reference: Muslim)

       

      Allaahum-maghfir lihayyinaa, wa mayyitinaa, wa shaahidinaa, wa ghaa'ibinaa, wa sagheerinaa wa kabeerinaa, wa thakarinaa wa 'unthaanaa. Allaahumma man 'ahyaytahu minnaa fa'ahyihi 'alal-'Islaami, wa man tawaffaytahu minnaa fatawaffahu 'alal-'eemaani, Allaahumma laa tahrimnaa 'ajrahu wa laa tudhillanaa ba'dahu.

      O Allah forgive our living and our dead , those who are with us and those who are absent, our young and our old , our menfolk and our womenfolk. O Allah, whomever you give life from among us give him life in Islam, and whomever you take way from us take him away in Faith . O Allah , do not forbid us their reward and do not send us astray after them. (Reported by Abu Dawud)

      Allaahumma 'inna [name the person] fee thimmatika, wa habli jiwaarika, faqihi min fitnatil-qabri wa 'athaabin-naari, wa 'Anta 'ahlul-wafaa'i walhaqqi. Faghfir lahu warhaw.hu 'innaka 'Antal-Ghafoorur-Raheem.

      O Allah, surely [name the person] is under Your protection, and in the rope of Your security, so save him from the trial of the grave and from the punishment of the Fire. You fulfill promises and grant rights, so forgive him and have mercy on him. Surely You are Most Forgiving, Most Merciful. (Reported by Abu Dawud)

       Allaahumma 'abduka wabnu 'amatika ihtaaja 'ilaa rahmatika, wa 'Anta ghaniyyun 'an 'athaabihi, 'in kaana muhsinan fazid fee hasanaatihi, wa 'in kaana musee'an fatajaawaz 'anhu.

      O Allah, Your male slave and the child of Your female slave is in need of Your mercy , and You are not in need of his torment . If he was pious then increase his rewards and if he was a transgressor then pardon him. (Reported by al-Bayhaqi)

      Note: If the mayyit is a child, then the following du'a should be recited:

      Allaahumma 'a'ith-hu min 'athaabil-qabri. [or say:] Allaahum-maj'alhufaratan wa thukhran liwaalidayhi, wa shafee'an mujaaban. Allaahumma thaqqil bihi mawaazeenahumaa wa 'a'dhim bihi 'ujoorahumaa, wa 'alhiqhu bisaalihil-mu'mineena, waj'alhu fee kafaalati 'Ibraaheema, wa qihi birahmatika 'athaabal-jaheemi, wa 'abdilhu daaran khayran min daarihi, wa 'ahlan khayran min 'ahlihi, Allaahum-maghfir li'aslaafinaa, wa 'afraatinaa wa man sabaqanaa bil'eemaan.

      O Allah, protect him from the torment of the grave. [It is also good to say:] O Allah, make him a precursor, a forerunner and a treasure for his parents and an answered intercessor. O Allah, make him weigh heavily in their scales (of good) and magnify their reward. Make him join the righteous of the believers. Place him in the care of Ibrahim. Save him by Your mercy from the torment of Hell. Give him a home better than his home and a family better than his family. O Allah, forgive those who have gone (i.e. passed away) before us, our children lost (by death), and those who have preceded us in Faith.

  7. Say a Fourth Takbeer

  8. Make Salam either on one (right) side or on both sides. both ways have been authentically reported from the Prophet (upon whom be Allah's blessings and peace)

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Shrouding (Takfeen) of the Mayyit (deceased)

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By Sheikh Ahmad Kutty

It is necessary that a mayyit be shrouded and wrapped fully in a clean sheet; (while cloth is recommended). The shroud should be simple. A pilgrim who has died in a state of ihram should be wrapped in his ihram. The complete form of shrouding is as follows:

  1. Cut the sheets into three pieces for male and five for females. *

  2. Place the three bands (included in the kafan package) on the table parallel to one another as follows: One slightly above the head position, the second at the waist, and the last one below the feet.

  3. Spread the scented shoruds one on top of the other: spread the lifafh (outer garment) first on the table; place the izar (covering from head to toe) on the lifafah, and then the qarnees (shoulder to knees).

    For a females use the two extra pieces (in the package) to cover the head and the chest.


  4. Place the body in the shrouds in such a way that the top of the qarnees can be lifted or rolled over the head. The head should now pass through the neck hole so that it fits like a shirt on the body.



  5. Wrap the izar around the body.



  6. Use the lifafah to wrap the whole body by overlapping it from side to side.


  7. Tie the three bands over the shrouds: one above the head, the second around the waist, and the third below the feet. (See Figure 4)

* Shrouds are available as a tailored package (Kafan package) from Mosques.

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Invocation for entering the Restroom

"اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنَ الْخُبُْثِ وَالْخَبَائِثِ".

Allaahumma 'innee 'a'oouthu bika minal-khubthi walkhabaa'ith.

(Before entering) (Then) O Allah , I seek protection in You from the male and female unclean spirits.

(Reference: Al-Bukhari 1/45, Muslim 1/283.)

Listen to the Du'a:

12 April 2009 10:05 by Shayistha Abdulla | Comments (1) | Permalink

Womb

Narrated Anas bin Malik:The Prophet said, "At every womb Allah appoints an angel who says, 'O Lord! A drop of semen, O Lord! A clot. O Lord! A little lump of flesh." Then if Allah wishes (to complete) its creation, the angel asks, (O Lord!) Will it be a male or female, a wretched or a blessed, and how much will his provision be? And what will his age be?' So all that is written while the child is still in the mother's womb." (Bukhari, 316)

Etiquette and behavior towards Allah

Thanking Allah

A Muslim thanks about the countless blessings that has bestowed upon him. He considers the numerous bounties that Allah has given him from the time that he was a “drop of fluid” in his mother’ womb. The bounties continues until he meets his Lord. Therefore, a Muslim must thank Allah for these bounties with his tongue, by praising Him and extolling Him in a proper manner. He must also thank Him with his limbs by using them in obedience to Him. This is how we should behave towards Allah. Obviously, it is never considered proper etiquette to be ungrateful for bounties one has received or to reject the bounties of the One Who gives. One also should never deny the goodness and bounties he has received.

Allah has said in the Qur’an:

“And whatever blessing or good thing you have, it is from Allah.” (16:53)

Allah also says:

“And he gave you of all that you asked for, and if you count the blessings of Allah, never will you be able to count them.”  (14:34)

Another verse states:

“Therefore remember Me (by prayer and glorification), I will remember you. Be grateful to Me and never be ungrateful to Me.” (2:152)

Knowing Allah

A Muslim thinks about Allah’s knowledge and the fact that He is watching everything that he does under any circumstances. The Muslim’s heart then becomes filled with awe, respect and veneration for Allah. He becomes shy and embarrassed to disobey Him. He will be too shy to go against His Commands and disobey Him. This is how he should behave towards Allah. Obviously, it is not proper etiquette at all for a slave to against his master by disobeying him or by treating him with evil and disrespect while his master is witnessing and watching him. Allah has said:

Fearing Allah

“What is the matter with you, that {you fear not Allah (his punishment), and} you hope not for reward (from Allah or you not believe in His Oneness). While He has created you in (different) stages(first Nutfah, then Alaqah and then Mudgah.) (71:13,14)

Allah also says:

“And Allah knows what you conceal and what you reveal.” (16:19)

And yet another verse states:

“Neither you (O Muhammad), do any deed nor recite any portion of the Qur’an nor you (O mankind) do any deed (good or evil), but We are Witness thereof, when you are doing it. And nothing is hidden from your Lord (so much as) the weight of an atom (or small ant) on the earth or in the heaven.” (10:61)

Placing trust in Allah

A Muslim also ponders over Allah’s Power and Control over him, how his forelock is in the Hand of Allah. He knows that there is no escape or fleeing from Him. There is no refuge or shelter except in Allah himself. Therefore, the Muslim flees to Allah and throws himself before Him. He leaves his affairs with Allah and puts his trust in Him. This is how he should behave with respect to his Lord and Creator.

It is not proper etiquette whatsoever to flee from One from Whom there is no fleeing. Nor is it proper to rely upon one who has no power. Nor should one put his trust in one having no power or ability.

Allah has said:

“There is not a moving (living) creature but he has grasp of its forelock.” (11:56)

Allah also says:

“So flee to Allah. (from His Torment to His Mercy – Islamic Monotheism). Verily, I (Muhammad(SAWS) am a plain Warner to you from Him.” (51:50)

Allah says:

“Put your trust in Allah if you are believers indeed.” (5:23)

A Muslim also considers how generous and compassionate Allah has been to him in all his affairs. He considers Allah’s mercy upon him and upon all of His creation. He desires to have more of that mercy. Then he humbles himself to Allah with sincere humility and supplications. He seeks a means of approach to Allah with the best of speech and good deeds. This is how he should behave towards his Lord Allah. It is not a proper behavior whatsoever to despair of receiving more of His Mercy which encompasses everything. Nor should one despair of receiving more of His Goodness that encompasses all living creatures and His Generosity that is for all existence.

Certainly, Allah has stated:

“My mercy embraces all things.” (7:156)

Allah also says:

“Allah is very Gracious and Kind to His slaves.”  (42:19)

Allah has also said:

“Certainly, no one despairs of Allah’s mercy, except the people who disbelieve.” (12:87)

Another verse states:

“Despair not the mercy of Allah.” (39:53)

Obeying Allah

A Muslim also considers severe grip and ability to punish severely. He also considers Allah’s swift reckoning. Then the person makes sure that he obeys Allah and tries to die without disobeying Him. This is all part of his proper behavior towards Allah. People of intelligence know that it is not proper behavior for a weak and incapable slave to commit acts of disobedience and wrong towards the Lord Who is the Powerful, the All-Capable, the Strong, the Dominant.

He has said:

“But when Allah wills a people’s punishment, there can be no turning back of it; and they will find besides Him no protector.” (13:11)

Allah also says:

“Verily, (O Muhammad), the Seizure (punishment) of your Lord is severe and painful.” (85:12)

Allah also says:

“Allah is Almighty, All-Able of Retribution.” (3:4)

Expecting from Allah

A Muslim should also think about Allah while he is disobeying Him as if Allah’s threat is already applying to him and His punishment has already come upon him due to his action. He should also think about Allah while obeying Him and following His Laws as if His Promise has already come true for him and Allah’s Pleasure has already been bestowed upon him. This is part of the Muslim having good expectations of Allah. Having good expectations or thoughts about Allah is part of the proper etiquette towards Allah. It is not proper whatsoever for a person to have bad thoughts about Allah and, therefore, disobey Him and think that Allah is not watching what he is doing or will not take him to account.

Allah has said:

“But you thought that Allah knew not much of what you were doing. And that thought of yours which you thought about your Lord, has brought you to destruction; and you have become (this day) of those utterly lost.” (41:22,23)

It is also not proper behavior for a person to fear Allah and obey Him while suspecting that he will not be rewarded for the good deeds he performed or that he shall not be recompensed for his obedience and acts of worship.

Certainly, Allah has stated:

“And whosoever obeys Allah and His Messenger (SAWS), fears Allah, and keeps his duty (to Him), such are the successful.” (24:52)

Allah also says:

“Whoever works righteousness, whether male or female, while he or she is a true believer, verily to him We will give a good life (in this world with respect, contentment and lawful provision), and We shall pay them certainly a reward in proportion to the best of what they used to do (i.e. Paradise in the Hereafter).” (16:97)

Allah says:

“Whoever brings a good deed shall have ten times the like thereof to his credit; and whoever brings an evil deed shall have only the recompense of the like thereof, and they will not be wronged.” (6:160)

In conclusion,

a Muslim must be thankful to his Lord for the bounties He has given him

  • He must be shy towards his Lord whenever he leans towards committing a sin
  • he must sincerely turn to his Lord
  • put his trust in Him
  • hope for His Mercy
  • fear His Punishment
  • he must have good expectations concerning Allah with respect to Allah fulfilling His Promises and carrying out His threats for whoever He wills for His slaves.

This is how he should behave toward Allah. The more that he sticks to these matters and guide them, the greater will be his position and more elevated will be his rank. He shall be greatly blessed by Allah and he shall become one of the devoted slaves of Allah and from those people whom Allah protects. He shall be enveloped in Allah’s Mercy and shall have Allah’s Blessings bestowed upon him.

This is the most any Muslim could hope to achieve and this is what he should seek during his entire life.

O Allah, make us from Your devoted slaves. O Allah, do not prevent us from being among those whom You protect. O Allah, make us from those who are close to you, O Allah, Lord of the worlds.

2 February 2009 18:45 by Shayistha Abdulla | Comments (0) | Permalink

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