Envy

Narrated Ibn Masud: I heard the Prophet saying, "There is no envy except in two: a person whom Allah has given wealth and he spends it in the right way, and a person whom Allah has given wisdom (i.e. religious knowledge) and he gives his decisions accordingly and teaches it to the others." (Bukhari)

17 December 2012 08:04 by Umm Sahl | Comments (2) | Permalink

The Purpose of Fasting

www.fastramadan.com

 

Firstly: we must note that one of the names of Allah is al-Hakim (the Most Wise). The word Hakim is derived from the same root as hukm (ruling) and hikmah (wisdom). Allah alone is the One Who issues rulings, and His rulings are the most wise and perfect.

Secondly: Allah does not prescribe any ruling but there is great wisdom behind it, which we may understand, or our minds may not be guided to understand it. We may know some of it but a great deal is hidden from us.

Thirdly: Allah has mentioned the reason and wisdom behind His enjoining of fasting upon us, as He says (interpretation of the meaning):

O you who believe! Observing As-Sawm (the fasting) is prescribed for you as it was prescribed for those before you, that you may become Al-Muttaqun (the pious) [Noble Quran 2:183]

Fasting is a means of attaining taqwa (piety, being conscious of Allah), and taqwa means doing that which Allah has enjoined and avoiding that which He has forbidden.

Fasting is one of the greatest means of helping a person to fulfill the commands of Islam.

The scholars have mentioned some of the reasons why fasting is prescribed, all of which are characteristics of taqwa, but there is nothing wrong with quoting them here, to draw the attention of fasting people to them and make them keen to attain them.

Among the reasons behind fasting are:

  1. Fasting is a means that makes us appreciate and give thanks for pleasures. For fasting means giving up eating, drinking and intercourse, which are among the greatest pleasures. By giving them up for a short time, we begin to appreciate their value. Because the blessings of Allah are not recognized, but when you abstain from them, you begin to recognize them, so this motivates you to be grateful for them.

  2. Fasting is a means of giving up haram things, because if a person can give up halal things in order to please Allah and for fear of His painful torment, then he will be more likely to refrain from haram things. So fasting is a means of avoiding the things that Allah has forbidden.

  3. Fasting enables us to control our desires, because when a person is full his desires grow, but if he is hungry then his desire becomes weak. Hence the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: O young men! Whoever among you can afford to get married, let him do so, for it is more effective in lowering the gaze and protecting one's chastity. Whoever cannot do that, let him fast, for it will be a shield for him.

  4. Fasting makes us feel compassion and empathy towards the poor, because when the fasting person tastes the pain of hunger for a while, he remembers those who are in this situation all the time, so he will hasten to do acts of kindness to them and show compassion towards them. So fasting is a means of feeling empathy with the poor.

  5. Fasting humiliates and weakens the Shaytan; it weakens the effects of his whispers (waswaas) on a person and reduces his sins. That is because the Shaytan "flows through the son of Adam like blood as the Prophet (Peace be upon him) said, but fasting narrows the passages through which the Shaytan flows, so his influence grows less. [Shaykh al-Islam said in Majmu' al-Fatawa, 25/246]

    Undoubtedly blood is created from food and drink, so when a person eats and drinks, the passages through which the devils flow – which is the blood – become wide. But if a person
    fasts, the passages through which the devils flow become narrow, so hearts are motivated to do good deeds, and to give up evil deeds. 

  6. The fasting person is training himself to remember that Allah is always watching, so he gives up the things that he desires even though he is able to take them, because he knows that Allah can see him.

  7. Fasting means developing an attitude of asceticism towards this world and its desires, and seeking that which is with Allah.

  8. It makes the Muslim get used to doing a great deal of acts of worship, because the fasting person usually does more acts of worship and gets used to that.

These are some of the reasons why fasting is enjoined. We ask Allah to help us to achieve them and to worship Him properly.

And Allah knows best.

[See Tafsir al-Sa'di, p. 116; Ibn al-Qayyim's footnotes on al-Rawd al-Murabba', 3/344; al-Mawsu'ah al-Fiqhiyyah, 28/9]

20 July 2012 03:40 by Umm Sahl | Comments (1) | Permalink

Wise remembers His favour

He grants Hikmah to whom He wills, and he, to whom Hikmah is granted, is indeed granted abundant good. But none remember (will receive admonition) except men of understanding. (2: 269)

Tafsir (Ibn Kathir)

The Meaning of Al-Hikmah

Allah said,

(He grants Hikmah to whom He wills.)

`Ali bin Abi Talhah reported that Ibn `Abbas said, "That is knowledge of the Qur'an. For instance, the abrogating and the abrogated, what is plain and clear and what is not as plain and clear, what it allows, and what it does not allow, and its parables.'' Imam Ahmad recorded that Ibn Mas`ud said that he heard the Messenger of Allah saying,

“There is no envy except in two instances: a person whom Allah has endowed with wealth and he spends it righteously, and a person whom Allah has given Hikmah and he judges by it and teaches it to others.” This was also collected by Al-Bukhari, Muslim, An-Nasa'i, Ibn Majah.

Allah's statement,

(But none remember (will receive admonition) except men of understanding.) means, "Those who will benefit from the advice are those who have sound minds and good comprehension with which they understand the words (of advice and reminder) and their implications.''

2 June 2011 07:30 by Umm Sahl | Comments (0) | Permalink

Part 1 : Benefits of Dhikr- The Divine Protection

Read the Table of Contents

يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا اذْكُرُوا اللَّـهَ ذِكْرًا كَثِيرًا ﴿٤١﴾
وَسَبِّحُوهُ بُكْرَةً وَأَصِيلًا

"O You who have believed, remember Allah with much remembrance. And exalt Him morning and evening." (Al Ahzab- 41:42)

Remembrance: The remembrance of Allah is a perpectual divine order. It is the most excellent act of Ibadah and it is highly emphasized in the Book of Allah and in the Sunnah of His Messenger.

Salah: The most important pillar of Islam after the testimony of faith is Salah.

Yet, it is amazing to know that the great institution of salah has been made a means to achieve the highly regarded goal of remembering Allah.

This is what Almighty Lord told Musa

"And establish the prayer for my remembrance." (Taha: 14)

The Salah is composed of three different types of deeds:

  1. Physical movements
  2. Oral statements
  3. Feelings and emotions (the deeds of the heart)
  • All of the oral statements are words of remembrance. We should be active in ou Salah. We should know what we are reciting.

  • All of the deeds of the heart during salah are acts of remembrance, like concentratiing during the prayer, reflecting on the verses, etc.

  • The physical movements seem to be excluded from the rule, yet all these movements are meant for the remembrance of Allah. The servant does not perform them except to remember Allah. They are conscious movements that are aligned with the oral statements.
  • Therefore, everything we do in salah is an act of remembrance.

When we do any act for the sake of Allah to please Him and to Obey Him, we are engaged in DHIKR!

Dhikr: Dhikr of Allah is the greatest and the noblest act of Ibadah. Allah says, which means:

"...and the remembrance of Allah is greater." (Al Ankabut:45)

  1. The Remembrance of Allah is an immunization against hypocrisy (Get immunized against nifaaq)

    إِنَّ الْمُنَافِقِينَ يُخَادِعُونَ اللَّـهَ وَهُوَ خَادِعُهُمْ وَإِذَا قَامُوا إِلَى الصَّلَاةِ قَامُوا كُسَالَىٰ يُرَاءُونَ النَّاسَ وَلَا يَذْكُرُونَ اللَّـهَ إِلَّا قَلِيلًا


    "Indeed, the hypocrites [think to] deceive Allah, but He is deceiving them. And when they stand for prayer, they stand lazily, showing [themselves to] the people and not remembering Allah except a little," (An Nsa: 142)

    Thus, the best way to save ourselves from hypocrisy and stay away from it is to increase the remembrace of Allah with our hearts and tongues.

    When we increase our remembrace of Allah, we stay away from hypocrisy.

  2. The Remembrace of Allah is the most effective weapon to defeat our enemy, the satan.

    وَمَن يَعْشُ عَن ذِكْرِ الرَّحْمَـٰنِ نُقَيِّضْ لَهُ شَيْطَانًا فَهُوَ لَهُ قَرِينٌ


    "And whoever is blinded from remembrance of the Most Merciful - We appoint for him a devil, and he is to him a companion." (As Zukhruf: 36)

    Explanation of this verse: Indeed, he is an active companion who is able to affect the decisions and the choices of his human companion. He has an influence over him.

    Due to his lack of remembering Allah, his enemy has overtaken him. He has no defences.

    Every human being has a Satan to invite him to disobey Allah. When we becomes heedless about the remembrance of Allah, then Satan becomes active and starts inviting us to disobey Allah.

    The Prophet (SAW): "Verily, Allah has commanded Yahya ibn Zakariya to tell the children of Israel to perform five duties, including the following: 'I command you to remember Allah, for the likeness of that is like a man whose enemy chases him with a high speed, until he comes to a strong fortress where he protects himself from him. Similarly, a servant can not protect himself against the satan except by remembering Allah." (Classes as Saheeh by Al Albaani)

  3. The remembrance of Allah is the most deserving of deeds in reward.

    وَالذَّاكِرِينَ اللَّـهَ كَثِيرًا وَالذَّاكِرَاتِ أَعَدَّ اللَّـهُ لَهُم مَّغْفِرَةً وَأَجْرًا عَظِيمًا

    "
    And the men who remember Allah often and the women who do so - for them Allah has prepared forgiveness and a great reward." (Al Ahzab: 35)

    The value of the gift depends upon the status of the giver. So how about Allah when he promises a great reward?

    Prophet (SAW) said: "There is no group of people who leave a gathering in which they did not remember Allah, except that they will conclude it as if it has foul odour similar to that of a rotten carcass of a donkey, and it will be a cause of grief to them." (Abu Dawud)

  4. The remembrance of Allah polishes and refines the heats

    It removes the outlayer layers caused by disobedience. With the remembrance of Allah, hearts are purified and freed from coarse and unsuitable qualitites.

    Narrated Abu Huraira (RA): "Verily, when the servant commits a sin, a black spot appears in his heart. If he repents from it, his heart is polished clean. However, if he increases (in the sin), the spot will continue to increase. That is the statement of Allah: Nay! But on their hearts is the Ran (covering) which they used to earn." (At-Tirmidhi)

    Therefore, asking Allah (SWT) forgiveness which is one of the best types of dhikr will remove that stain and the hearts are polishd and purifies again.

    The Best way to Purify our hearts, is by DHIKR! Ask Forgiveness!

  5. The remembrance of Allah dispels worry from the heart

    Complete satisfaction and comfort are never achieved except with the dhikr of Allah.

    الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا وَتَطْمَئِنُّ قُلُوبُهُم بِذِكْرِ اللَّـهِ ۗ أَلَا بِذِكْرِ اللَّـهِ تَطْمَئِنُّ الْقُلُوبُ

    "And those who disbelieved say, "Why has a sign not been sent down to him from his Lord?" Say, [O Muhammad], "Indeed, Allah leaves astray whom He wills and guides to Himself whoever turns back [to Him]" (Ar-Rad: 28)

    This is an affirmative question which means: Surely and truly, it is by the remembrance of Allah that hearts find rest.

    Ibn Taymiya (Rahimu Allah) said: "Remembrance of Allah is to the heart what water is to fish. What happends to a fish when it is taken out of water?"

    The well known answer is: it will die. So, with great confidence we may exclaim that a heart that is deprived from the remembrance of his Lord is a dead heart.

    This famous hadith confirms this concept: Messenger of Allah (SAW) said: "The difference between the one who remembers Allah, and the one who does not, is like the difference between a living and dead body." (Bukhari)

  6. The people of dhikr are described to be people of great wisdom

    Whoever is given wisdom, he has acquired a great share of goodness. Allah says:

    يُؤْتِي الْحِكْمَةَ مَن يَشَاءُ ۚ وَمَن يُؤْتَ الْحِكْمَةَ فَقَدْ أُوتِيَ خَيْرًا كَثِيرًا ۗ وَمَا يَذَّكَّرُ إِلَّا أُولُو الْأَلْبَابِ


    "He gives wisdom to whom He wills, and whoever has been given wisdom has certainly been given much good. And none will remember except those of understanding. " (AL Baqarah: 269)

    إِنَّ فِي خَلْقِ السَّمَاوَاتِ وَالْأَرْضِ وَاخْتِلَافِ اللَّيْلِ وَالنَّهَارِ لَآيَاتٍ
    لِّأُولِي الْأَلْبَابِ
    ﴿١٩٠﴾

    الَّذِينَ يَذْكُرُونَ اللَّـهَ قِيَامًا وَقُعُودًا وَعَلَىٰ جُنُوبِهِمْ وَيَتَفَكَّرُونَ
    فِي خَلْقِ السَّمَاوَاتِ وَالْأَرْضِ
    رَبَّنَا مَا خَلَقْتَ هَـٰذَا بَاطِلًا سُبْحَانَكَ فَقِنَا عَذَابَ النَّارِ


    "Indeed, in the creation of the heavens and the earth and the alternation of the night and the day are signs for those of understanding.Who remember Allah while standing or sitting or [lying] on their sides and give thought to the creation of the heavens and the earth, [saying], "Our Lord, You did not create this aimlessly; exalted are You [above such a thing]; then protect us from the punishment of the Fire. " (Al Imran: 190-191)

Read the remaining 6 benefits of Dhikr in Part 1 (a)

28 January 2011 11:22 by Umm Sahl | Comments (9) | Permalink

Why Do We Fast?

 Praise be to Allaah.

Firstly we must note that one of the names of Allaah is al-Hakeem (the Most Wise). The word Hakeem is derived from the same root as hukm (ruling) and hikmah (wisdom). Allaah alone is the One Who issues rulings, and His rulings are the most wise and perfect.

Secondly :Allaah does not prescribe any ruling but there is great wisdom behind it, which we may understand, or our minds may not be guided to understand it. We may know some of it but a great deal is hidden from us.

Thirdly: Allaah has mentioned the reason and wisdom behind His enjoining of fasting upon us, as He says (interpretation of the meaning):

“O you who believe! Observing As-Sawm (the fasting) is prescribed for you as it was prescribed for those before you, that you may become Al-Muttaqoon (the pious)” [al-Baqarah 2:183]

Fasting is a means of attaining taqwa (piety, being conscious of Allaah), and taqwa means doing that which Allaah has enjoined and avoiding that which He has forbidden.

Fasting is one of the greatest means of helping a person to fulfil the commands of Islam.

The scholars (may Allaah have mercy on them) have mentioned some of the reasons why fasting is prescribed, all of which are characteristics of taqwa, but there is nothing wrong with quoting them here, to draw the attention of fasting people to them and make them keen to attain them.

Among the reasons behind fasting are:

1 – Fasting is a means that makes us appreciate and give thanks for pleasures. For fasting means giving up eating, drinking and intercourse, which are among the greatest pleasures. By giving them up for a short time, we begin to appreciate their value. Because the blessings of Allaah are not recognized, but when you abstain from them, you begin to recognize them, so this motivates you to be grateful for them.

2 – Fasting is a means of giving up haraam things, because if a person can give up halaal things in order to please Allaah and for fear of His painful torment, then he will be more likely to refrain from haraam things. So fasting is a means of avoiding the things that Allaah has forbidden.

3 – Fasting enables us to control our desires, because when a person is full his desires grow, but if he is hungry then his desire becomes weak. Hence the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “O young men! Whoever among you can afford to get married, let him do so, for it is more effective in lowering the gaze and protecting one’s chastity. Whoever cannot do that, let him fast, for it will be a shield for him.”

4 – Fasting makes us feel compassion and empathy towards the poor, because when the fasting person tastes the pain of hunger for a while, he remembers those who are in this situation all the time, so he will hasten to do acts of kindness to them and show compassion towards them. So fasting is a means of feeling empathy with the poor.

5 – Fasting humiliates and weakens the Shaytaan; it weakens the effects of his whispers (waswaas) on a person and reduces his sins. That is because the Shaytaan “flows through the son of Adam like blood” as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, but fasting narrows the passages through which the Shaytaan flows, so his influence grows less.

Shaykh al-Islam said in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa, 25/246

Undoubtedly blood is created from food and drink, so when a person eats and drinks, the passages through which the devils flow – which is the blood – become wide. But if a person fasts, the passages through which the devils flow become narrow, so hearts are motivated to do good deeds, and to give up evil deeds.

6 – The fasting person is training himself to remember that Allaah is always watching, so he gives up the things that he desires even though he is able to take them, because he knows that Allaah can see him.

7 – Fasting means developing an attitude of asceticism towards this world and its desires, and seeking that which is with Allaah.

8 – It makes the Muslim get used to doing a great deal of acts of worship, because the fasting person usually does more acts of worship and gets used to that.

These are some of the reasons why fasting is enjoined. We ask Allaah to help us to achieve them and to worship Him properly.

And Allaah knows best.

19 August 2010 16:03 by Umm Sahl | Comments (6) | Permalink

Beware the seven Calamities

Narrated by Abu Hurayrah: The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: `Lose no time to do good work before you are caught up by one of the seven calamities.' Then by way of warning, he recounted,`A starvation which may impair your wisdom, or a prosperity which may mislead you, or an ailment which may damage your health, or an old age which may harm your senses, or a sudden death or the appearance of Dajjal (Antichrist). All these are bad events which may be awaited; or the Doomsday, but this day is indeed very hard and bitter (Tirmidhi, 93).

13 November 2009 06:46 by Diya | Comments (3) | Permalink

Children involving in the Recitation of Qur'an

By Humaira

“Verily, We have sent it down as an Arabic Qur'ân in order that you may understand. We relate unto you (Muhammad SAW) the best of stories through Our Revelations unto you, of this Qur'ân. And before this (i.e. before the coming of Divine Revelation to you), you were among those who knew nothing about it (the Qur'ân) “[12: 1-3]

Hiba was a bright kid, fond of reading books, and now that her summer holidays had begun, she was excited about getting to read other books.

She found a shelf in which her mother kept the different kind of books. She had discovered it long before, but was too busy with school work and Quran lessons to sit down and read them.
One day she asked her mother if she could go and get a book from the shelf to read.

`Yes, of course.’Amina answered as she was cooking something in the kitchen.

Hiba quickly went in, grabbed a story book and began reading.

Amina had already read that book; it was a story of a beautiful princess who had got transformed into a monkey by some jinn and a prince found her... In short - a castle in the air that wouldn’t have done any good to Hiba. Well enough, Amina thought it was a waste of time for her daughter to read such stories. In fact, she wanted her daughter to read the Holy Quran, but when she saw the interest of her daughter in that book she let her read, and decided to deal with it another day.

Only for the next two days Hiba was found with the story book, after which she lost interest in it.

Where is your book, Hiba?’

‘I finished reading it’- answered Hiba.

`And did you like the story?’

`No mama, I didn’t quite  like it.’

Amina was surprised how her daughter didn’t find the book interesting although it was appropriate for her age - something most kids would love reading.

'I don’t know Mama...but I didn’t enjoy reading it.’
 
Amina was actually relieved to hear that from her daughter. She asked Hiba,`Should I then show you a book that has beautiful stories, you would enjoy reading?’

Hiba anxiously replied that she would love to.

Amina gave her the Holy Quran.

SubhanAllah! Hiba opened it. Her little hands were holding onto the Qur’an so tightly...

Amina was constantly making du’a: “Oh Allah, may my children always hold on to the Qur’an and gain benefit and guidance from it - Ameen”

Hiba’s curiosity bursted... `Mama, where should I start from?’ 

 `Surah Ash-Shuara, chapter 26 tells the story of Prophet Musa, peace be upon him. It is a very beautiful chapter and we can together read it and learn a lot from it.’
 
Amina opened Surah Ash-Shuara and made Hiba read it.

Hiba eventually got so engrossed  reading that she forgot what was going around her.

Amina sighed with a relief. AlhamduLillah! She went back to the kitchen to finish what she was doing.

After a while, Amina asked Hiba, “So did you like reading the Qur’an?”

`Yes mama, very much!’ she replied.

Amina then told her, “when I was a kid and had started reading the Qur’an, I also felt the same. It is indeed interesting and is a guide, which when followed, makes us the best of human beings...’

Hiba told her mother the story she read and both of them discussed the events and the characters.

"We send down (stage by stage) in the Qur'an that which is a healing and a mercy to those who believe: to the unjust it causes nothing but loss after loss." [17:82]

Indeed...the Qur’an is guidance,Wisdom, Strength, Healing, Mercy and lot more, for those who read it and follow it so why delay? Let our children hold it and read it until it becomes the life of their souls and the light of their hearts.

The prophet (peace be upon him) used to seek Allah’s protection for Al-Hasan and Al-Husain by saying to them: “I seek protection for you in the perfect words of Allah from every devil and every beast, and from every envious blameworthy eye” – Al-Bukhari 4/119

12 August 2009 13:17 by Umm Sahl | Comments (3) | Permalink

Before the Boat Drowns

By Muhammed alShareef

Ashaab As-Sabt - the people of Saturday. They were a townsfolk from Bani Israeel who were tested with the Sabbath, the day when they were to leave their worldly affairs and be devout to Allah. All week long they would go fishing with scant return. But on Saturdays, when they were required to put aside their activities, the fish would come in abundance. A test from Allah!

And ask them (O Muhammad) about the town that was by the sea; when they transgressed in the matter of the Sabbath (i.e. Saturday): when their fish came to them openly on the Sabbath day, and did not come to them on the day they had no Sabbath. Thus We made a trial of them for they used to rebel against Allah's command (disobey Allah) (Al-A’raf 7/163).

A group of the townsfolk transgressed, not satisfied with Allah’s commandments devising a scheme to by-pass the commandment. They would put out their fishing nets on Friday, and then on Sunday they would come and pick the nets up. Now all the Saturday fish would be caught.

The townsfolk divided into 2 groups when they saw the grave evil and sin that was befalling. The first group tried to advise the transgressors and warn them of the horrific consequences of their action – commanding the good and forbidding the evil.

Thinking they had no responsibility for what was taking place, the other group just went about minding their own business, holding that Allah would eventually destroy the sinners.

And when a community among them said, "Why do you preach to a people whom Allâh is about to destroy or to punish with a severe torment?"

Listen carefully to the reply of the first group.

(The preachers) said, "In order to be free from guilt before your Lord (Allâh), and perhaps they may fear Allah" (Al-A’raf 7/164).

So the first group spoke out against the disobedience that was taking place for two reasons: One, so that they would be pardoned before Allah because they tried to hold back the transgressors. And two, so that perhaps the transgressors may hear the reminder and turn back to Allah. It was only this group that survived.

So when they forgot the reminders that had been given to them, We rescued those who forbade evil, but We seized those who did wrong with a severe torment because they used to rebel against Allah's Command (disobey Allah). / So when they exceeded the limits of what they were prohibited, We said to them, "Be you monkeys, despised and rejected" (Al-A’raf 7/165-166).

In one sweeping night, the punishment rained down and they were transfigured into pigs and monkeys.

Dear brothers and sisters, it is the nature of a human being to feel the need to do good or feel the drive to indulge in evil. Even if we were to be alone, deserted and secluded, we would still feel a drive to do good or indulge in evil.

But as for our ummah, it should of our characteristic to only do good. And we should not only do good ourselves, but we must encourage others to do good; we must be the driving force. And we should not only distance ourselves from vice, but we must forbid others from doing it also, we must be the obstacle.

Dear brothers and sisters, if we all had Muslim identification badges, and the badge was valid, the description that would go on the badge would read: This man/woman commands the good and forbids evil, for this is how Allah described us.

You (true believers in Islam) are the best of people ever raised up for mankind. You enjoin al-ma'ruf (good) and forbid al-munkar (evil), and you believe in Allah (A’le-Imran 3/110) .

Good and evil. When it comes to encouraging one or the other, there are two groups of people. The first are those who encourage others to do good and advise them to stop the evil they may be committing. These are the mu’minoon and mu’minaat, the believing men and women, the ones that shall be favored by Allah’s Mercy:

The believers, men and women, are auliya' (helpers, friends, protectors) of one another. They enjoin (on the people) al-ma'ruf (good), and forbid (people) from al-munkar (evil). They perform as-salat (establish prayer), and give the zakah, and obey Allah and His Messenger. Allah will have His Mercy on them. Surely Allah is All-Mighty, All-Wise (At-Taubah 9/71).

The second group of people are those who encourage others towards evil and stop them whenever they see them doing acts of virtue. These are the munaafiqoon and munaafiqaat, the hypocrite men and women who Allah shall shun.

The hypocrites, men and women, are from one another; they enjoin (on the people) al-munkar (evil) and forbid (people) from al-ma'ruf (good) and they close their hands (from giving alms in Allah’s cause). They have forgotten Allah, so He has forgotten them. Verily, the hypocrites are the fasiqun (rebellious, disobedient to Allah) (At-Taubah 9/67).

The Qur’an tells us that the winners, those that attain success, are those Muslim men and women who command the good and forbid the evil. And Allah teaches us that He cursed nations before us because they lost this characteristic of encouraging good and forbidding evil:

Those among the Children of Israel who disbelieved were cursed by the tongue of Dawud (David) and Eesa (Jesus), son of Maryam (Mary). That was because they disobeyed (Allah and the Messengers) and were ever transgressing beyond bound. / They used not to forbid one another from al-munkar (evil), which they committed. Vile indeed was what they used to do (Al-Ma’idah 5/78 -79).

When a nation fails in their duty to command the good and forbid the evil, their invocations will cease to be accepted. Rasul Allah sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam said:

“(I swear) by He who holds my soul in His Hands, you shall indeed command the good, and you shall indeed forbid the evil, otherwise Allah shall rain down upon you a punishment. Then you shall attempt to invoke Him and your (invocations) shall be unanswered” (An authentic hadith narrated by Ahmad and At-Tirmidhi).

Our Prophet sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam, lived his entire life commanding the good and forbidding evil. Abdullah ibn Salam narrates the scene of when he, sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam, first arrived in Madinah and the very first words he said to the Ansar and Muhaajireen as they gathered to see his noble face sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam:

“When Rasul Allah sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam came to Madinah, the people raced to greet him. I went in the crowd to see him and when I saw his face I knew that that face was not the face of a liar. The first thing he said when he spoke was, ‘O people, spread salam, feed the hungry, and pray at night when others are sleeping - you’ll enter Jannah in peace’” (An authentic hadith narrated by Ibn Majah).

Our Prophet sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam would command the good and forbid the evil in all categories of the community. We see him with the young Muslims advising them, as in the following hadith where Umar ibn Abu Salamah said, “I was a young boy under the care of Allah’s Messenger sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam when my hand was jumping here and there in the (food) plate. Allah’s Messenger sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam said to me, ‘O young boy, say bismillah (first), eat with (your) right hand, and eat from what is in front of you.’”

Ibn Abu Salamah continued, “After that I always ate in that manner (which I was taught)”
(Bukhari and Muslim).

And our Prophet sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam would encourage good amongst the Muslim women. As Zaynab, the wife of Abdullaah ibn Mas’ood said, “Allah’s Messenger addressed us, ‘O women! Give charity, if even with your jewelry’” (Bukhari and Muslim).

Even if it came to his own wives, our Prophet sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam would forbid. Aisha radi Allahu anha herself narrates that she once said to him, sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam, “Watch out for Safiyyah!” Meaning that she was short.

So Allah’s Messenger sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam said, “You said a word that if it were to be mixed with (all) the water of the sea it would overcome (the water)”
(Narrated by Abu Dawood).

Aisha said that after that that she would never have loved to mention someone (in a manner that they would dislike) no matter what anyone would give her.

This is what the deen is all about – encouraging the good and forbidding the evil. This is what the early Muslims pledged allegiance to. Ubaadah ibn As-Saamit radi Allahu anhu said, “We pledged allegiance to Allah’s Messenger sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam to listen and obey in what we like or dislike, and that we would not fight the people of authority, and that we would stand for the truth wherever we may be, fearing not – for the sake of Allah – any criticism of those who would criticize” (Bukhari and Muslim).

PART II

The scholar Kirz Al-Haarithee rahimahullaah used to go out unto the doers of evil and warn them of the sin they were doing. They would rain down upon him with their fists until he would fall unconscious in a pool of blood, but he would never pass them without advising them (From Siyar Al ‘Alaam by Imam Adh-Dhahabee).

I remember once when I was teaching in Islamic school a young boy came up and told me what he was going to get for his birthday. I was kind of surprised since birthdays are not something we find in our complete way of life in Islam and they are something we should not participate in. The classmates knew the ruling on birthdays so they started chanting loudly, “No more birthdays! No more birthdays!”

I was very pleased at the class reaction and it brought back memories of myself growing up in a non-Muslim school. In that non-Muslim school there was no one to forbid the evil. Rather, it was the evil that everyone, including the teacher, was encouraging. If you didn’t have a birthday you were the dork in the class, and if you didn’t get invited to this classmate’s party or that one, you weren’t one of the ‘cool’ kids.

May Allah ta’aala show His mercy to those parents who are saving their young Muslim children from such an environment.

Allah’s Messenger sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam gave us a parable that we should never forget in this issue of commanding the good and forbidding the evil. As An-Nu’maan ibn Basheer radi Allahu anhu narrates, the Prophet sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam said:

“The similitude of the one who is steadfast on the borders of Allah and the one who has fallen over it is that of a people that come upon a boat. Some of them go to the top and the others go to the bottom. Those on the bottom – in order for them to drink – have to disturb those on top. So they say to themselves, ‘Let us make a hole in the bottom of the boat in this portion of ours, so as not to disturb those above.’”

The Prophet sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam continued, “If those above leave those below to what they want to do, they will all perish. But if they hold their hands they’ll save the people on the bottom, and all of them will be saved” (Bukhari).

When someone encourages good and forbids evil he should have certain characteristics:

1. Knowledge
2. Patience, as Luqman taught his son.
3. Hikmah – having widom
4. Kindness to those whom they are advising.
5. They should be just, not forgetting the good that that person still has.

The point of commanding good and forbidding evil is not to release some anger in our hearts or to revenge an insult to us. In the end we want the person to receive guidance, something which may require us to swallow our personal pride sometimes. Other times – when the situation calls for it – we may have to hurt someone’s feelings if that is the only way they can be guided. But it is only the person of ‘ilm (knowledge) and hikmah (wisdom) who can properly measure the situation.

Hurting the feelings of the lay Muslim is not a first resort, nor is public humiliation of someone who came to the masjid for the first time. These are methods of those who have not schooled themselves well in the characteristics of those who call to Allah.

In conclusion, there are many ways that one can encourage good and forbid evil, try some of the following:

- With an encouraging speech or lecture
- With a booklet highlighting what needs to be encouraged or a general e-mail
- With an Islamic tape given as a gift
- With an Islamic Magazine or newspaper
- With an e-mail or letter addressed specifically to the person who needs to be encouraged or needs advice in abstaining from sin.

And the list goes on.

About those who encourage good and forbid evil. Allah says:

Let there arise out of you a group of people inviting to all that is good (Islam), enjoining al-ma'ruf (good) and forbidding al-munkar (evil). And it is they who are the successful (A’le-Imran 3/104).

Let’s begin practicing the encouraging of good and the forbidding of evil today. Let’s begin with that Muslim in the mirror.

Source: www.khutbah.com
Re-published with Permission

10 July 2009 10:55 by Umm Sahl | Comments (3) | Permalink

Khadeejah bint Khuwailid (RA)

Khadeejah (RA), Honored by Allah

Khadeejah (RA) was the first ever lady to be blessed with the honor and distinction of having been greeted with Salam by Allah and Angel Gabriel. She (RA) was a perfect image of:

  1. Faithfulness
  2. Integrity
  3. Modesty
  4. Good manners
  5. Nobility
  6. Generosity
  7. Wisdom
  8. Understanding

Khadeejah's (RA) birth and lineage

  • She (RA) was born in Makkah in the year, 556CE.
  • Her mother's name was Fatimah bint Zai'd bin Al-Asamm.
  • Her father's name was Khuwailid bin Asad. He was one of the chiefs of Quraish and a very prosperous businessman.
  • She (RA) was a very wealthy businesswoman, who used to employ men to do business for her; her caravans- like those of the rest of Quraish-used to travel to Ash-Sham and to Yemen and return with good profits and great benefits, so her business was profitable and her wealth increased continually.

Khadeejah's (RA) Marriages

  • She (RA) married Abu Halah bin Zururah At-Taimi. She (RA) bore him two children, Halah and Hind. Her husband died during Jahiliyyah.
  • She (RA) later as a young widow married Ateeq bin Aziz, the leader of Banu Makhzum and she bore him a daughter Hindah. Ateeq also passed away.
  • Prophet Mohammed (SAW), was Khadeejah's (RA) last husband and the wedding which lasted for more than 24 years until she passed away and left our beloved Prophet heartbroken and in sorrow.

Khadeejah's (RA) introduction to the Prophet (SAW)

  • She (RA) had heard about the superior morality, integrity, honesty, trustworthiness, truthfulness and his character.
  • She (RA) sent a message to him, requesting him to sell her goods in Ash-Shams and she offered him a higher rate than she gave to the other traders.
  • He (SAW) gladly accepted the offer and started working for Her.

A Monk's prediction of the Prophet (SAW)

  • Prophet (SAW) set out on a journey to Ash-Sham, taking her goods with him along with her slave, whose name was Maisarah.
  • As they approached Ash-Sham, the Prophet (SAW) descended and sat in the shade of a tree near the hermitage of a monk, who came out and asked Maisarah: " Who is this man sitting under that tree?" Maisarah replied: " He is a man from Quraish." The Monk said to him: "No one has ever sat beneath that tree except a Prophet."

Maisarah witnessing a cloud

  • Maisarah also observed that at midday, when the heat was excessive, a cloud would appear and shade the Messenger of Allah (SAW).
  • He was stunned and overcome at being blessed in the companionship of one chosen by Allah as his Messenger.

Khadeejah's (RA) desire to propose Marriage to Prophet (SAW)

  • Maisarah returned home and informs Khadeejah (RA), of all that had taken place on the trip to Ash-Sham. He informed her of the good character He had.
  • The profits were double than what they normally were.
  • She was deeply moved and impressed and started thinking of proposing marriage to Mohammed (SAW).
  • She had already rejected several proposals of marriage from men belonging to some of the noblest families of Quraish, and wondered how her tribe would react to this proposal.
  • She was also concerned if an unmarried younger man would accept her proposal.

Prophet Muhammad's (SAW) acceptance of the Proposal.

  • The Prophet (SAW) accepted Khadeejah's (RA) proposal.
  • After Khadeejah (RA) had presented her proposal to the Messenger of Allah (SAW), he informed his uncles of what she had said and they agreed to his marriage with her, then his uncle Hamzah went to the house of Kuwailid bin Asad, her father - and made the proposal of marriage to her.
  • He (SAW) was then twenty-five years old of age and Khadeejah (RA) was forty two years old.

The Wedding of Khadeejah (RA) and Prophet Muhammad (SAW)

  • Prophet (SAW) presented Khadeejah (RA) with 20 camels as dowry (Mahr).
  • She was the first woman Prophet (SAW) married and he did not marry any other until after her death.
  • Their marriage was a blessed one and the Messenger of Allah (SAW) was an exemplary husband, loyal and kind, he treated his wife well and was very affectionate towards her.
  • She (RA) was also an exemplary wife, loyal and eager to provide ease and repose for her husband and to please him.
  • She was devoted to obeying and serving her husband and providing all means of assuring his happiness and comfort.
  • Narrated Abu Huraira: Gabriel came to the Prophet and said, "O Allah's Apostle! This is khadija coming to you with a dish having meat soup (or some food or drink). When she reaches you, greet her on behalf of her Lord (i.e. Allah) and on my behalf, and give her the glad tidings of having a Qasab palace in Paradise wherein there will be neither any noise nor any fatigue (trouble) . " (Al-Bukhari)

Khadeejah's (RA) children from Prophet (SAW)

  • Khadeejah (RA) was very blessed in the marriage with the Prophet (SAW), and had six children.
  • First two sons Qasim and Abdullah.
  • Then followed the daughters Zainab, Ruqayyah, Umm Khultum and Fatimah.
  • The male children died before Islam; as for his daughters, they all lived to see the advent of Islam and they believed and migrated with him to Al-Madinah.
  • Zainab married Abul Aas bin Rabee'ah.
  • Ruqayyah married Uthman bin Affan, when she passed away he married Umm Khultum.
  • Fatimah married Ali bin Abi Talib and had two sons Hasan and Hussain.

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